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Q: Okay. Here's the thing. This boy (14/m) and I (13/f) have been super close for the past year. We really like eachother but agreed that we wouldn't date because we dont feel like we are at a mature enough age to handle it. Also, we knew ahead of time that he would be moving away at the end of the year and I really didn't want to get invloved with him just to have him pulled away... Well I tried as hard as I could but when it comes down to it you can't control your feelings and Ive really fallen for him. He totally understands me, and knows me better than I think some of my friends do. This summer is going to quite literally suck without him. He's not just a boy I like, he's my friend and I dont know what I'm going to do. My friends can see the writing on the wall. They already know what a mess I'm going to be and I know they will want to help but I dont want to have to depend on them. I'm fairly independent and I am mad at myself enough that I have let this boy mess with me so much and I want to be able to handle some of his being gone (not ALL of it, I know not super girl) on my own. So if any of you know any good tips (please dont tell me to just throw myself out there, I'm soo not that kind of person) but maybe just give me some pointers or a few really good promises I can make to myself that I can look at when I am feeling down. You know like "I promise myself I will not mope everyday" or "I will not text/call/IM him everyday" because I really want to move on. I'm too young to be try a long distance relationship (especially when we weren't even dating to begin with!) and I think I just need to get over him, but I ned help. Tips and promises I can make to and practice myself please!!
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i do feel sorry for you,its unfortunate that this has happened,because such feelings should be kept within,until mr.right pops up later in ur life.but dont worry,remember that he is a friend above all.and always keep your mind and yourself engaged in something else,some interesting stuff.when you do different things,it kind of takes your mind off all these things.its like this,the trick is that the mind cannot concentrate on many things at once.so when your mind is occupied,you will be least bothered about other things.
you are a great person,a valuable one too.so dont feel down,for any reason.get over him,and be back to normal again.wish you luck!
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Gender: Female Location: Mangalore,India Age: 29 Yahoo: Member Since: January 6, 2009 Answers: 28 Last Update: August 5, 2010 Visitors: 4762
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