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I'm Christina 25 years old I give very good advice when it becomes to being questions about being married,babys,pregnancy,abuse,career,adhd,depression,life,ect

Ive been through a lot in my life 14 years of counseling and sex therapy my life wasn't always perfect i was adopted by my grandmother as a child didn't find out til i was older my mother was living with us and she got away with things when i had my daughter at 20 I had no choice but give her to a family my mother was abusive to me yelling at me i was taking care of my grandmother but i was living at home i was engaged to be married but every thing didn't turn out right the man i loved lied to me so I had to change and not be life my family be mature move on and get away some family can be controlling that it can ruin your life that the best thing you can do get out get counseling I I graduated high school in 2003 and then i went to art school at art instruction school and dress making design i became a plus size model help from a friend I might have not had help in some ways of life but friends were the best in my life i looked at their life and that what i wanted my grandmother was just getting old when i reach a certain age my mother did drugs that one resin I left my sister were the same I wanted to to be their they wanted me to be like them well i did not want to be white trash so i toke some lady classes to be classy,graceful,independent this made me more of a women of my image and people like you when you have good manners good taste and can carry a conversation and can get along if you want to change you can god is one of the people that help me through every thing I might have had to give up on things but some times you have to make them better you might end up with nothing but along the way you get the things you need but things do not come free in life and you just cant sit their let in come to you. you have to get out and do it your self or you will not live the dream. god gave us all a talent live it do it become it never give up . my mother killed her self and overdosed on pill i was their and my grandmothers deathbed at least I seen her before it was time for her to go she was a good women she gave me good advice she and her husband owned a bar my grandmother was married twice but her first husband died then she was widowed and was poor then a man came in her life she lost her son at his age 13 my grandfather past away also but my grandmother was hard working women she would get work done if you didn't she could do any thing Im like her she didn't go to art school her dad wanted her to. but she got married instead well i did the art thing for her i got it from her her teaching me and showing me as a child as i will always love her never give up the people that showed you life and love its the main key to life I grew up having adhd still l have it to this day dosn't mean your dume it mean you got talent and you always have ideas running throw your head walt disney,the guy who mad charlie brown all had adhd woppie goldberg,mary kate and ashley,ect no ones is alone in some we we are the same but we all different image is nothing never compare you self to ant one be your self be healthy exercise eat healthy and you'll be happy thank you for reading this have a good day. my webpages myspace/ANNAIKA my email chrissibug@yahool.com

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so after a 10month relationship saterday night i got dumped. its hard to say it was expected but i dont really know. my mother found out we were having sex or thought we were and decited that i was going to stay inside till i turned 21 im 17 about to be 18. im not going to say i lost her trust because i dont think i ever had it. if i ever asked her if i could go out and lets say it was 8pm she would say its too late. i would always have to leav around 7 or 6. and than i would have to come home at 11pm than she would be mad because most of the time we never went to parties or clubs... im like because i have to leave when its getting good...so whats the point of paying to go if im leave befor the show starts. so yeah i was stuck at home for a little more than a month. when i asked her if i could go out friday she said not till i was 21 and than i was really mad and we got into an argument.. than she said she wanted to talk to him. i said fine ill tell him to come over. than she changed her mind and said no because my dad was home and she didnt want him to find out. so i was like than what do yu want.. after a wile she came and said we were going to his house. i said no because my mom takes things way out of line and she wouldnt be able to control herself and would have made a really big deal. saterday when we called me he said i would be better if we brake up because there were too many problems. with my mom and work. that he was comeing out of work late like at 8 and my mom always bitched about that. and even if we did talk to her she might not give in for that. during the hole brake up explaination he cept telling me he loved me... and taht we should just wait.. till things got better. he wanted to know what i thought but i couldnt think strate. i was crying so hard.. that he told me to call him back when i calmed down. when i did i told him i didnt want to beg him but i didnt want to not be with him. but that i wanted him to talk to her that if it didnt help anything that ok we would just leave it at that. he said fine and taht he was going to call me tomorrow (sunday) he said he loved me i said i love you too than kiss me throgh the phone 3x sunday i wasnt home. (phone taken away other story)and since we all have our cells we just have a line nothing else i *69 to see who was the last person to call he said he would call around 8... but the last call was around 6 and it wasnt his number... i *67 his but it was turnd off like not even the voice mail came on... i dont know what to do...

when you turn 18 your at the legal age to leave mocw out and date people if she dosnt let you be a women how will you learn to date men or try to at least have a life hello she might be being a control freak but your not 16 you might live with her but you can come and gos as you please if she called the coped and you wernt home thier nothing she can do.I know she your mother but thier a time in a girls life were girl turn to women they find a man date him get to no him mabee even get married it sayes in the bible when a man a a women reaches a time in thier life they leave thier family to find some one to be come one I no some people dont understand life I mean didnt your mom date men she did she had you she might have a problem with o is my daughter going to get pregnet show that you are a grown up get on birthcontol so if you are sexual nothing wil lhappen so you wont get pregant moms can be so crazy about some tihings tell her i have a life to i have pms i grew boobs I turned in to a women you can trap me for ever mom dont you see I no you care but I dont want to get pregant i want to be safe all I want to do is date guys and do it a safe way im not ready to just seetle down im still learning life but if i dont date how will i ever learn to get out thier tell her I will always love you and i will tell you were i go as i live in your house but when i turn 18 you can be so harsh on me I feel like a dog in a cage I no girl have got pregant made mastakes and did drugs and drink i choice not to be like that i want to get a career mabee go to college but i still have the right to date this my body you dont own me any more and some day i might move out and have my life bt right now i need freedom to im not tired to your waste if i dont learn ill be living her till im 40 so i need to learn in a good way thing look around im not a baby any more i grow up hope this help ok bye now

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(Rating: 5) thanx i really hadn't thought of how to explain it to her but yu really made sence
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