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Q: So basically to make the long story short, I recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half, because he wouldn't find a job, get his license, make time for me, and stopped caring for our relationship. To be honest I am very hurt, and I miss him very much -- I'd die for him. But I felt this was the right thing to do right now.

Well in the past week, all I have been having were these dreams about he and I. One was about him and I breaking up then he got over me the next day and found someone else (which didn't happen), when where he cheated on me (didn't happen either), when where we fought and he broke up with me (didn't happen), and then just last night I had a decent one actually, when he and I were together, just us, having a great time on a road trip together (didn't happen). I had a couple more but I don't remember those, but I do remember in most of these I woke up crying..

I just don't know what to do. Can someone help me, please? =[
hey!i can understand that you are hurt and miss this person,this happens because you feel rejected by the guy.when someone stops caring it is very hurtful,but try to accept that there may be many other reasons for whatever happened,and the reason isn't you.always tell yourself,that you are a great and valuable person.dont feel hurt anymore,because it is definitely not your fault.if you want him back,you have to tell him about it[with the risk of getting more hurt,if he says no],or getting over him,and living a normal life again.you are a wonderful girl,no matter what has happened ,or what will happen.believe that you are fabulous,and you will be fine.good luck!

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