so there is this guy, that long story short, i wanted for like 5 months, and then he broke up with his girlfriend for me. well. we aren't official because he cares what other people think and doesnt want them to say bad things about us. so its been like 1 week and 1/2 maybe 2 weeks since they broke up and i told him that i would wait but not forever. and like, on friday, i hung out with him, my best friend and her boyfriend at her boyfriend's house. It was reallly fun. we were goofing around outside for a little playing basketball. and then we went inside, chilled and hung out and talked. well. we were all talking on the couch when my best friend and her bofriend "leave the room" to go get "water" [they wanted me and the guy to be alone ahaha, smooth, not.] so we were sitting there on the couch, just talking, and his ex girflriend texts him, "hi" he was like, "guess who just texted me?" and i was like, "who?" and he didn't look very happy and was like, "just guess." and i was like "[insert ex's name here]" and he was like, "yeah." then closed his phone and im like, "are you gonna answer her, and he was like, "no.. i could tell her i cant talk now.." and i was like, "nah, its okay." and then we went back to talking and he started playing with my fingers and then we held hands and linked fingers and such. and i knew he wanted to kiss me, i coudl tell by his body language. but im not going to just kiss him when we're not together. that's not me. and im also afraid hes gonna compare me to his ex, because they made out and stuff, but i only kissed a guy once. and that was just a quick peck, so im insecure about him not liking me anymore because of that. but then i had to go and stuff, and when i left, my best friend and her boyfriend told me he was a little dissapointed but happy and he told my best friends boyfriend that he was going to "ask me out rather soon" we text everyday and he calls me baby and babycakes and sweet heart and cutiepie and says he misses me so much..
i just dont know what to think or do, im kinda stuck.. ahaha. so any help or comments are appreciated :] thank you.
im a 16f, sophomore and he is a 15m, sophomore.
It sounds like he likes you. He's just trying to take a little bit of time between relationships. He doesn't want to jump into another relationship right away. A week and a half or two weeks isn't long at all to wait between relationships. It's actually rather short. If he said he's going to ask you out soon, he will. It sounds like he's really into you, but still gets upset when his ex talks to him. Which isn't odd considering the fact that they just broke up. Give him a little bit of time and don't rush him to ask you out. He'll ask you out soon, like he said.
Darby(:
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