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i'm not really asking too much for advice, but more of opinions and what you guys think. so heres my story (17f&17m):
i dated this guy for 8 months and we broke up the last week of april...he said he doesn't have the same feelings for me. however, we went to prom together and i was laying on this guy cause i wasn't feeling good and he was off doing his own thing...and he got upset at me for that...we both decided that itd be best for us not to talk until summer starts (which is in like a month from now) then he wants to start hanging out again as friends and he said "if its meant to be, it'll be". we started going out during the summer of last year and i was thinking of doing something cute when we hang out to realize why he fell for me last summer. i really love this kid and he treats me right. so what do you guys think i should do with this whole situation..is there anything that can boost our chances of getting back together?
Just be yourself and make sure he knows how you feel. You may think he understands how you feel without having to really say it, but in order to stop any possible misconceptions, you should let him know exactly what you're thinking and feeling when you start hanging out again. I think it's a cute idea to do something to remind him of last summer. Where did you guys first hang out? Did you have a special song? Do something that you did when you were at your happiest together. If there was a movie you really enjoyed together or an experience, reenact it to try to spark the relationship again.
If I were you, I would just wait the month until summer break. School and finals could be stressing you out and taking a toll on your relationship. Once you're done with school, you can hang out stress/drama-free.
Just make sure you are yourself 100%. If he still feels like he doesn't have the same feelings he used to, it's time to move on. It will be summer break and a perfect opportunity to spark up something new with someone new. It could be like a completely fresh start.
Good luck!
Darby(:
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thanks :)
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