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I love my girlfriend but she can be down right stubborn and strongly opinionated. There's nothing wrong with that, but sometimes we'll be talking about something and our viewpoints will be polar opposites and she's so strong in her opinions that it kind of gets me frustrated. I think it's probably because I try to be passionate myself with my reasons during these conversations, but sometimes I feel like she doesn't look from where I'm coming from or saying.I don't like, nor do I want to get bothered over such small things. I mean it's usually during convos about movies or music or something like that. It's lead to some minor tifts and I really want to prevent that.
I don't even have much of a temper, but sometimes the topic gets so heated where I don't want to "lose" per se. I know I have to let it go. How can I constructively handle these situations and control myself from being bothered and keep a cool head? Thanks.
Well, my boyfriend and i used to have the same problem. He would feel one way about something and I would feel another way. One thing we had to learn how to do is agree to disagree.
Sometimes i will not back down and sometimes he will not either. So the way to defuse the situation is to just agree that we are not going to see eye to eye on the subject and move on.
you can tell her it is obvious that our views are different about this subject so I am not going to keep going over this. Let's just leave it alone or we will be here all day.
I hope that this helps!!!!!!
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thanks for your help! I will keep it in mind
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