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I'll keep this one short and sweet. I am a fourteen-year-old freshman girl. Well, I have a friend who apparently is bi-sexual, and asked out one of his friends who is a boy, and the friend said he didn't want to spoil their friendship, so it was dropped. But then, about a month later, my friend asked me out. Should I be insulted? I mean, I am in no way against gays or anything, but it is a little... I don't know. I do dress kind of boyish I will admit. I dress in zip-up hoodies that I find on sale in the men’s department, but I didn't know it was THAT bad. Should I take a hint, and change myself? Or, am I just over reacting?? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for the help! :) (link)
There is absolutely no reason for which you should be insulted. If anything, you should be flattered. It's just one more person who thinks you're a catch. You should not be prejudice against him because he "apparently is bi-sexual". Even if lesbians started hitting on you, you shouldn't be insulted. You should be yourself. I understand why you wouldn't want to date a bisexual guy, but it certainly doesn't mean that straight guys don't find you attractive.


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THANKS! That helps a lot. It makes me feel better. Thanks a ton!




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