Hi there.. My name is Kirsten.. I'm 21, I live in a small country town in South Australia, Australia. I love life, I love giving advice to anyone who needs it. I have a boyfriend of 5 years and were very much in lurrve ;) Feel free to ask me anything guys and gals.. thats what i'm here for. If I don't know the answer to your questions i'll try my best to give you what I know.. Have fun, live life to the fullest and ask away... ;) xoxo
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So there's this guy that I really hate but I'm sort of friends with at the same time... I know that doesn't really make sense :S He's really annoying and has like no life but he follows me around so I talk to him and everything. So the other night over facebook, he asked me out. Naturally I said "sorry, but I don't really like you that way." Apparently he's liked me for a long time. It was VERY awkward.
But now I feel really weird. I have this issue with getting mad at boys who ask me out... I can't shake it! So I ended up getting mad at him today and I yelled at him. I feel really bad too, because he has no idea what's going on. Tomorrow is the last day before vacation (thank God) so I won't have to worry about it much, but still, I feel guilty. He keeps trying to talk to me and saying he's sorry.
I told him I was sorry an hour ago, but I still feel weirded out. I mean this is some weird kid no one really likes we're talking about here. I am head-over-heels for someone ELSE. So why do I feel so GUILTY and horrible? I really don't want anything to do with him, but I would feel too bad. I need help on what to do!
Thank you soo much! (link)
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Did you ever stop to think that this guy might just want a friend or companion? he's worked up the courage to ask you out and you've shut him down. Imagine how you would feel if this person your head over heals for just shut you down in two mind flat.
Point here is that this guy likes you, give him a chance to be your friend at least. Annoying or not he's a human being and deserves a chance. Don't think your better then him because your not. He could turn out to be your best friend or boyfriend perhaps.
Just give the by a chance to be himself around you. Obviously he'd get nervous around you because he has feelings for you but set the boundries clear and see how things go.
Hope I helped
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Thanks :)
Even though I doubt he'll be my boyfriend OR my bestfriend, I'll still take your advice! Thanks again
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