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(this is kinda hard to explain. hope you understand if you dont ask me)
okay so theres this guy that i went out with and we broke up because we argued a lot. and were still friends. we hang out like a couple times a week. and everytime we do hang out, we make out, and other things like that. and he wants to go farther, but i told him im just not ready. the other day we were hangin out and we got pretty far with things. farther than i had wanted things to go. and he started to undo his pants and then undo mine. i got scared and kinda pushed him away. then he grabbed me and was holding me cuz he realised he had pushed it to far.
well for some reason i want to go out with him very badly but he told me that its better we stay friends cuz we dont fight as much. and the other night we were talking about how i wanted to be with him. and he was like you know it will make our relationship a lot stronger if we just had sex.
im not letting him push me over.
so i guess im asking....
what should i do??
any help is great
please and thank you
-cuttechick24 (link)
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First, sorry to tell you sweetie he seems like a player that just wants to have sex.He obviously does'nt want a relationship and looks at you as an easy target that he can manipulate to have sex.
Stand up for yourself, you are wasting time with him when you can be with someone who actually respects you and understands that you are not ready,and doesnt try to push you to something like that.
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