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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=561630
Well that was the question I submitted before. The thing is that me and this girl used to be good friends until a week ago when I supposedly "played" her friend around. I spoke to her, apologised to her in a large manner (writing a large essay!), she said everything was cool and told me that she's "willing" to talk to me IF I put in the effort, but when we used to talk, our conversations were dry, so I got rather annoyed and told her that "if I'm wasting my time trying to build back this friendship, let me know" and she told me, "there's no point in wasting your time, I don't want to talk to you".
I don't know what to do, I wanna get back with her, but she treats me like shit, so I want to get over her...help? thanks! (link)
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Ultimately, it is your choice whether you get back with her or get over her. If you're going to be with someone you should be with someone who really wants to be with you. There is no point in trying to make someone want you if they don't, because their heart will never be in it. If you got back together, chances are she would still treat you like shit.
Usually when I see a friend get back with an ex in that way, it doesn't work out in the end, and somebody ends up getting hurt for a second time. I actually did it too once upon a time when I was young and stupid, and my ex that I got back with was so completely mean to me. I've never seen somebody get back with their ex and things work out. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but usually they are exes for a reason. Personally, I think you'd be better off to get over this girl. I could be wrong, especially since I am a stranger.
Someday, or maybe even in the near future, you will meet somebody who makes you wonder why you wasted your time with somebody who didn't treat you right. Why waste any more time?
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really...thank you for all this help...means alot
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