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can anyone tell me when you know when you're in love...like the feelings that you feel, as opposed to DEEP infatuation and lust?
im 16 years old and i really think that im in love but i also have strong feelings on that word, and i just want to know when id know that im truly in love.
what kind of feelings am i supposed to feel if i am? (link)
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we can't exactly tell you the feelings you're supposed to feel, because in my opinion,love is different for everyone. See, lust is just attraction-you like the physical things about them,but you don't really know who they are or love the little things about them. When your in love-you'll know you can trust the person, you can be goofy and yourself with them and also imagine growing old with them,sometimes. it could be love at first sight-like you've been missing something for awhile but when you're eyes meet you've suddenly found it. Or,it could grow from a friendship, where you trust and know eachother so well;and you can't imagine life with out them. Its really an intence emotion and only you can decide if you want to let your guard down and feel it or not. If you love someone,you care for them,think about them all the time,like the little things they do and accept they're flaws. Before loving someone, you have to be able to love yourself. I would wait on saying the 4 letter word if you haven't known them long or don't see sparks everytime they're around you(or have instant chemistry). You can be in like with them ( :D ), and over time grow to love them. Theres many kinds of love. Most people say, when you love someone, you know for sure. Try talking to them more and hanging out with them to see all sides of this person. If you feel out of control of your emotions then it'll be hard to tell what your feeling is real or not. But hay, why not give it a try once you're ready? You never know what could happen :D! good luck and hope i helped some,
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