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Gender: Female
Location: United States
Occupation: Student
Age: 18
Member Since: April 14, 2009
Answers: 13
Last Update: April 15, 2009
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i met this guy named chris at a kick-back. and he thought i was 18.. so like he started talking to me and stuff.. ad we ended up kissing.. but not having sex because im a virgin and i wasn't going to give it up to him. so when he found out i was 16 he was like tripping lol. cause he's a marine and hes going to be a cop in 2 years and what happened is illegal you know. i've been seeing him every saturday for 3 saturdays straight. cause we hang around with the same people.. the second time we hung out he talked to me but like it was whatever.. his friend told me that he liked me but that i was young.. i see older guys dating underage girls all the time.. but yeah and i saw him this past saturday cause we had a bonfire at the beach and it was cold so he hugged me and when we were saying bye he slightly touched my butt.. he didnt really grab it or anything though. but we do text a lot.. but i really want to be his girl-friend.. how do i pull that off? (link)
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I see that you are expecting an answer about how to make him yours, right? Well...I don't have one of those. I have experience. I can tell you head on that dating guys that much older than you at sixteen is a bad idea. Answer me this: Is he sweet? Is he a loyal friend? Does he make you feel like you can have a more mature relationship?
He is probably freaking out over the incident because he was in it for a less serious reason than you and realized that you are underage.
When I was sixteen I dated a twenty-one year old. Cute, funny, incredibly sweet. I made the first move with him and he ended up with me. Turned out that he was controling and rude. I really cared about him and was devastated when I learned that he had cheated on me throughout our six months of dating.
I am telling you to forget him because he isn't worth a heartbreak. If you are really meant to be with him God will make it happen: in the future. But for now, I know you hate to here it, concentrate on your studies. Boys will always be there. School won't.
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