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Q: i met this guy named chris at a kick-back. and he thought i was 18.. so like he started talking to me and stuff.. ad we ended up kissing.. but not having sex because im a virgin and i wasn't going to give it up to him. so when he found out i was 16 he was like tripping lol. cause he's a marine and hes going to be a cop in 2 years and what happened is illegal you know. i've been seeing him every saturday for 3 saturdays straight. cause we hang around with the same people.. the second time we hung out he talked to me but like it was whatever.. his friend told me that he liked me but that i was young.. i see older guys dating underage girls all the time.. but yeah and i saw him this past saturday cause we had a bonfire at the beach and it was cold so he hugged me and when we were saying bye he slightly touched my butt.. he didnt really grab it or anything though. but we do text a lot.. but i really want to be his girl-friend.. how do i pull that off?
HI, I did the same thing I was 16 and dating a 21 year old he was really sweet and stuff i never did anything with him because i was scared that i would get pregnant or some disease becuase i get scared like that and im really protective of myself but it was all good for a little while till one of my supposeble friends called the cops and said that he was raping me which wasnt true, and he ended up going to jail or prison or something i cant really remeber but anyway when he got out he had to move back home and he got his life ruined he cant get a job anywhr and he had to register as a sex offender how nice huh..lol..well anyway my point is, that you shouldnt date him until your at least 18 or 21 whenever your legal to do things, i dont know exactly what age that is, but just be his friend for now until your old enough that way his life doesnt get ruined because if hes in the marines thats a good job hes got and maybe when your older you guys could date and both be happy and he would make good money and support you, but theres nothing wrong with being friends till then you know? well i hope i made sense in this paragraph..lol..and i hope i helped you some.

yes you did thanks alot =]

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Well I am a 17year old/F and Im an outgoing person I get along with mostly any1 who comes along, I have brown hair dark brown eyes, and I like giving advice so im glad I found this page..lol..Ill try my best to answer anyones questions I dont judge people so dont be affraid to ask me. :P

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