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Well I've been married goin on about a year, I love my wife, we've been together since middle school, and we've been havin sex since middle school! Its always been, good you know the basic sex life! Well here's the problem, I've always told her to up her anty u know(get a lil crazy in bed) well since we've been married she has, well not quite what I expected, she likes me to slap her and choke her, I've never been that wild, so I act like I love it, but I really can't stand it! I jus don't know how to tell her? I don't wanna break her heart or be rough durin sex, wait it gets worse we have sex every night, and before it was 3 times a month, please I need some advice, what should I do? (link)
just tell her your uncomfortable. She might be a little embarrassed, but if she loves you, she will respect your comfort zone. Work it into a conversation about what you imagine really good sex to be. That should get your statement out gently and help you guys to find a nice mid-ground that both of you will enjoy.
xo vivi


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Thank you so much, I'm glad you understand the situation..xo..je




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