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My name is Kelly and I am 16 years old. And I am here for anyone and everyone. I have been through my fair share of hard and good times. I am really understanding and I can help pretty much anyone with anything. Giving advice is one of my favorite things to do, I am always avalible if needed, so feel free to ask me anything. I am not a judgemental person at all and I can understand basically anything, feel free to ask me whatever is on your mind.
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I am a 24 year Male from India. I am a Gay and I always wanted to live a bachelor life in peace. I graduated 1 year back and I had a problem with my family regarding my post graduation and future career. And I fractured my right elbow 6 months back in a motorbike accident because my brother forced me to learn to drive motorbike. I told him I was scared to drive. I had to undergo surgery to fix my elbow with pins and screws. It still hurts. Nobody else know that I am gay. I dont honestly want a gay marriage either.
Doctor told me I cannot lift heavy weights again. It feels terrible to think that I have to live alone with a compromised right arm all my life and I spent 3 hours finding out ways to commit suicide in google. The thought of the moment of accident is just painful. I need someone to encourage me and advice me. Please help!!!!!
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Being gay is not something to be ashamed of. I really think you should see a therapist to help sort your problems out, but remember you are you no matter if you like men/women or if your tall/small or fat/skinny. It does not matter people will love you for who you are no matter what and if they do not accept you for who you are then they are not worth your time. I am also sure that your brother was not trying to hurt you he just wanted you to try something new, i also can see that he is probably very upset about you getting hurt in the first place, don't worry everything gets worse before it gets better. So, just take everything day by day, it'll get better. Just really think about seeing a therapist it'll help.


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Thanks for answering, yes my brother feels bad indeed...........




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