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let's start off with im 16, he's 17 (both juniors) and we live 20-25 mins away from each other so we only see each other on weekends. we've been dating for 9 months.

the first 6 months were amazing, he was the best boyfriend and always used to text me to see how i was doing and used to wake me up with those cute "good morning beautiful" texts and all that cute stuff to show that he cares and was thinking about me.

these past few months he never texts me anymore and i talked to him about it and asked him what was up and he said he's just been busy with school work since his grades were bad. but is it THAT hard to send a simple text at any point of time in the day? and when i text him he usually doesn't even answer. so yeah we pretty much don't even talk during the week and i don't feel like i can go on like this having this gut feeling that im with someone who doesn't even care. i've talked to him about it but it just seems to go in one ear and out the other...when we're together he's so nice but i just don't know what to do..i love him with all my heart and he's my first love and i'd be absolutely lost without him, but i don't want to do this to myself...what should i do? =[

Well, when you say you're in love, you know that you're in love with who he "was" & how he acted during the first 6 months, seeing as you called those 'amazing'.
Then, you explained that during these past few months & now, he ignores your texts for schoolwork & he only listens half-heartedly.
After this, you said that you can't live without him. If he's already ignoring your texts & not really conversing with you & doesn't care, then you're already living without him in every sense but the physical sense...and, still, you only see him on the weekends. And, now, you're still alive, right?
Keep in mind that if you've nagged him to text you more often, he's probably just going to text you less often out of irritation at your request.
I think that you have two options:
a) give it time.
b) end it.

Good luck.

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