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ok well this is embarassing and actually bothering me for a very long time....to start with i am a 27 year old female, before i got married i was a virgin...and guess what...i got married in august of 08...and still am a virgin! well as much as it sounds crazy and funny...this is driving my husband and my relationship downfall...i am basically scared to have sex...we have attempted several times...but everytime the poor man tries to put it in...i back off thinking its going to hurt...its been eight months now...and my husband's just a very understanding patient man...or else i feel if it were anyone else he would have cheated on his wife by now...my mom, my sister my close friends that i have shared it with...all have yelled at me about it...i am starting to hate the fact that i cant get this fear out of me...i mean come on i thought sex was suppose to be fun...and i also know it keeps a married relationship good...but thats missing in my married life..and i have to do something about it...please help! (link)
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Don't worry... being afriad of sex is normal. especially the first time. the first time it might be pain ful especially if you hymen hasent broken yet. The hymen is a thin membrane not inside the vag but part of the external genitalia. However, the condition of the hymen after puberty is not a reliable indicator that sexy time has been had. Hymens can be ripped from athletics, masturbation, and even tampon use. It is possible for woman to be born without a Hymen. it is best to see a doctor. your doctor will tell you if you have a hymen, if it's torn, or if its 'popped' this information with be very helpfull.
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oh wow...well thankyou for letting me know the medical terms of breaking my virginity! but yeah i have thought a lot of times to go to a gyno to get straight to the problem of my fear...but anyways thanks for the advice..appreciate your feedback.
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