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Q: I was talking to this guy, lets call him john.
I like john A LOT, and he said he liked me alot to. We talked everyday and he called me his GF and stuff but we werent BF&GF. But last week he didnt txt me at all. He finally did on his Bday and told me that maybe we should just leave eachother alone :(.. I asked him if thats what he wanted and he said " Yes..I guess." I dont know what happened, we were doin GREAT..

But there more, His stepsis is my bestfriend.
She knew about us talking and didnt like it, she made that clear. We both got yelled at for it..
the day before he txted me,she told me that she made him mad,and the stuff was about me. She yelled at him for talking to me, and also for talking to me for then her..

I think he stopped talking to me because of his sister... What do you think?
Dear Unclueless,

I think you already know the answer to your own question.

Clearly as you stated the Step sister confronted both you and her step brother.

The question is what you wanted to ask is What do you do about it?

Nothing!

If he choose to let his step sister run his personal life that is something he has to deal with not you. And if you also allow her to control your life well then.. you have to really get a reality check on yourself.

Lets see how long this last dont pressure it wait for it.

You will see


Real Talk

xoxoxo

Thanks, that really helped.. but one thing I dont understand is that he he told me " you can talk or text whoever you want, she is making you her *****", why cant he take his own advice..idk, but thanks again. :)

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