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Hey guys, Im Erika. I am looking into studying psychology in college. I am VERY GOOD at giving advice. I have been through many things in my life. I am currently in a relationship. i know A LOT about relationships, because I've been in one for many years. giving advice is something i deeply enjoy doing, because i love helping other with their problems and i can relate easily to other people.

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for me getting guys has never been a problem, the problem is they always screw me over. every guy i go for, no matter how different they may seem they usually turn out to be worse than the last. ive been through sheer hell in the relationship department and have felt like giving up but as sad as it is, i really do need a man to feel happy. i dont know why, or if thats pathetic, but i am not happy alone. i never feel good enough for anyone and each relationship results in my ego becomming lower and lower. i honestly have no idea what i do wrong. i try very hard not to be annoying, i stay in shape, i try and do nice things for them, and i try to take things slow sexually. im good at sexual acts so my problem is not that i dont know what im doing physically, but emotionally rather. i used to believe it was the guys but now im beginning to question, is it me? and why doesnt anyone actually like me? why do they all just want to use me? why is everyone capable of getting into amazing and functional relationships and im not. if you have any advice please let me know. i would like to know how i can become more of a relationship person, and how to detect if a guy is just looking to use me.

all you can really do is wait for a guy to come to you. when guys seem interested, take it slow, and try and find out things about them without being creepy about it. when they start talking to you, try playing hard to get. it makes them want you more, and they actually start to care more and try wayyy harder. its not you. its deffinately the guys because thats just the way they are. guys are really hard to find. especially when your a teenager because a lot of times they all act the same. guys are extremely hard to read. and really having a relationship in highschool is extremely hard. you go through a lot, but in the end it is all worth it. you just have to find the right guy, and thats the hardest part of anything that has to do with guys. you'll find him!!!

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