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I'm a 17 year old girl and for a few years now I've been bi-curious. I very recently got out of a relationship with a boyfriend and through the 16 months i was with him i told him and he fully accepted it. Mostly to the hope it would some day lead to a threesome. I thought that if i was seriously interested in women that i would just know, but recently i just don't understand what i'm going through.
For the past few years I've been wondering if i was bisexual because I was, and still am sexually attracted to men and women. I just could never imagine myself in a relationship with another woman. When i was with my ex boyfriend, because i was so in love with him it never occurred to me to be with another woman but since we've broken up, i just feel like, i could be with a girl or a guy but I just don't know.
Do you just...know when your bi? Can i just become bi? Is it something your just born with? Help?
I am a 21 yr old female and I started dating girls when I was 18. I am bisexual. I wondered and thought about girls my entire life. I didnt really think about actually dating them like you said you dont but I did think about hooking up with them. Thinking about hooking up with girls always turned me on more than thinking about hooking up with guys. But I never really did anything about it because what could I really do ya know?? I always had boyfriends and didnt tell anyone that I was attracted to girls. But right after I started college a girl came to work at my job who was a lesbian and me and ehr started hanging out as friends and it just went from there and I was with her for about a month. And I have been with girls since then.
I think that alot of people are probably bi and just dont say anything about it. Because really how do you bring something like that up out of no where especially if you dont even know if you want to have a relationship with a girl.
I didnt just know that I was. I knew I had the thoughts but I told myself that it was normal. I kind of tried to deny it. But I kind of knew in the back of my head that at if the opportunity ever came up, I would jump on it.
I believe its soemthing that your born with. I dont think that you just wake up one day and say wow im bisexual, without ever having any thoughts or signs.
(Rating: 5) Thankyou! I could really relate to what you were saying and feel a lot better :)