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Alright so theres this guy at uni.hes just a normal guy doesnt really stand out from the crowed and kinda quiet.it seems like everytime i look at him hes looking back at me.its as if we have this subconsious conection..i dont no if he feels it but i do.i dont even know him i dont no anything about him but i think now i have a crush on him.today i saw him walk past and my heart started to burn and my stomache tingled..does this mean i liek him?i havent noticed him looking at other girls like he does with me(ok this is actually starting to sound very stupid) but why would he be looking at me would it be because hes interesting in me or just because he likes to look at things?im so confused and dont no what to do should i forget him?i have tried to smile but by the time seem to have the courage to smile he looks away or the smile doesnt come out. i want to talk to him but hes never really alone.The only time he was was at the library but i was with my friends..what should i do?are there ways i can talk to him and not look like a fool?any advice at all would be appreciated!im f/19 and havent had a bf in over a year due to the last one being abusive and cheating on me and threatning me...

Yeah, its a crush. C'mon remember those things you has back in middle school that made your insides all wiggly? My advice: start talking to him. Maybe ask him to give you directions to a place (even if you are not planning to go there), or maybe compliment him on how fast he can text and then say "Why don't you teach me how to text like that." Asking him to help you do something helps him feel more manly, and it gives an innocent way for you to start a conversation with him.

As far as your abusive relationship, I commend you for getting out, but don't continue to allow him to have power over you. It will be hard to find trust again, but it is in there - you just may have to dig deeper than before.

Good Luck!

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(Rating: 5) thank you haha ask him to teach me how to txt as fast as that lol thats priceless!!
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