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ok well i have been with a guy before and everything and im 19/f last year i was with a jerk that i thought was the one for me was going to spend my life with him but then i found out about his secret life where he was unfaithful to me and a whole lot more which i wont go into detail.

lately i think i have been checking girls out and im not sure but i think im finding them attractive. I would look at them and scan them from head to toe i think i check them out and i cant help myself!i do find guys attractive but am i bi sexual?does this sound like a thing that a bi sexual would do or am i like this because i got hurt badly by a guy i had my heart set on?is it normal to be straight and severly check girls out?i think i would even make out with a chick but never done it so i wouldnt know
thanks in advance

It is normal for girls to check out other girls. Its the feelings you have inside that mean something. I am bisexual and I always checked out girls but that didnt make me realize anything. I had always thought and fantastized about girls but I knew that was normal so I didnt think anything of it. It was when I was hanging out w/ this girl I was working with at the time who was bisexual that I realized I was truly bi. We would hang out and flirt and slowly started cuddling when we would watch movies and we would play around and she would pick me up and stuff and I noticed that I would get more and more excited to see her. And I would want to look hot and stuff like that. So its not about the attraction to girls, its about the inside feelings.

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(Rating: 5) thank you!that helped to hear it from someone experienced in this situation xoxoxox!!
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