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Q: Okay, this is going to be a long question but I'd appreciate it if you would help.


Ok,I have a friend her names Taylor...I have a real close guy friend named Tanner. I like Tanner ... umm...a lot more than a friend. I think he doesn't like me though. Well...Taylor told me she liked him. I hid my feelings for him..for her because she's my friend...and I honestly don't think I have a chance with him. Well...my friend told me at lunch ...that she's in Taylor's technolgy class. She over heard her telling people..that she doesn't really like Tanner...she's just saying it to make me jeaolus. I was so MAD when I heard that. So, I told her I am not her friend anymore. So, I wrote Tanner a note telling him about what she said. So, in 8th period....Taylor's in my class and she sits across from me in the back row. She asked me why I wasn't her friend...I wrote her a note telling her why...I told her everything...that I liked him.. and I didn't want her to hurt him. I told her she wasn't a real friend...and so on. Well...she told me that she didn't say that ...and if she didn't like him...why would she talk about him so much.(She talks about other guys more than TANNER) So...I told my other friend...and she said that she said it..for sure. So....at the end of the day...I was so mad...I had a drawing my friend made me taped to my locker...and it was ripped...so bad...it was so pretty to. I think Taylor did it. SO..I was walking with my 2 friends. Than, Tanner walked up beside me ...he said " I read your note". I looked at him and said you did? He said ya ...and the one I wrote to taylor...so that must mean that he knows I like...him...I said in the note...that I really liked..him ...and cared for him. He said " Wow... ". I said..".ya...I was mad.."
At, the end of the note I said screw you...and that's what he said wow about.lol "So...she doesn't like me"? He asked...I think he was real hurt. I told him..".Ya I think...she's lieing to me and everything...but ya ".Now, that he knows how much I care about him...do you think he'll ask me out?? I wrote the note... and I told Taylor everything... not expecting Tanner would read it. Like, he was so nice to me... when he was talking to me about the notes. Usually..he's like rude. Like, when I tell him..." Come back dude...we luv you"!! Jokingly ...as friends...and I am like u like us right...he's like..." I like them...but not you"! So...I don't know if he's being rude to me...because he likes me... but that's sorta like a kindergarten thing..and we are in the 7th grade...were more mature.. So, do you think he's starting to like me? Or, what? I really care for him...and I don't want Taylor to go out with him because...she likes a lot of other guys. She usually dates a guy for about....3 days. Like, she just broke up with her ex boyfriend This wesnday...and they went out for about..like 3 DAYS...so I don't want her to hurt Tanner. So...what do you people think i should do?! I am SOOO confused! Thanks to who ever helps!
that's a little immature don't you think. And i don't mean it in a bad way. you're growing older and you need to sort out who your friends are.

forget about Tanner for a while. He's just a guy, there's a small chance that you two are going to get married. Talk to your friend Taylor. Don't write her notes. TALK TO HER. Tell her you like him and you want to know if she was planning on going out with him or not. Also don't be shy. If you like Tanner tell him. You're old enough to take rejection if he says he doesn't feel the same way.

Also if Taylor is the kind of person to date someone for 3 days and break up with them, she's not a nice person. And if she knows you like Tanner and tried to make you jealous by saying she likes him...she's definately not a friend.

Umm...thanks ..but he already knows that I like him now.She asked him out...but he didn't tell her a answer...so I don't think they'll go out since I told him...what she was saying.

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