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Age: 26
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I am 18/f. I am so attracted to my boyfriend, and I trust him with all of my heart. When we hook up, things get really heated, and I always feel like I'm restraining myself by not having sex with him. My body feels so ready, but I don't know if I am. I'm a virgin and I feel like my virginity is part of my identity and something I am proud of. How could I give it away? I don't know when I'll ever feel ready. How does one know? Should I have sex with my boyfriend? He is sexually experienced, but I know he's not pressuring me into anything. (link)
I am glad to hear he is not pressuring you. Its a big decision. Women use sex to gain and express love while men can use love to get sex. Your virginity is something you can never get back and you want to be sure if you do this its with the right person. A person you are ok with being emotionally and physically attached to. If you get pregnant will he stay and support your decisions? You have your whole life to experience those feelings. Just make sure he deserves that special part of you!


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