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Well lately I've had this crush(the whole year) and had finally gotten up the courage to tell him how I feel. But the exact same day I was about to tell him, he asked out another girl. I was really pissed because their personalities don't match whatsoever and they barely talk at all. Anyway, about a week after this happens I keep thinking they're not gonna last long. Then, on that saturday we were at BRH(baton rouge high) taking a placement test for next year an I meet this guy.
He is my friend's friend and she introduced us.
He was super sweet and mistaked me for someone else at first.( he asked if I was still datig someone... Which is kinda weird to ask someone of u haven't seen them in a while) but we talked for atleast 30 mind and I love him!
He talked to me more in those 30 mind than Kyle ever did (my other crush)
So I find myself day dreaming about him ( he kinda looks like Fred from YouTube) and I barely know him! So then realized that I won't see him until next fall!
My friend told emily(his friend) that I liked Him....but I didn't at the time an she comes up to me and starts calling me bitch an hoe (kinda Playfully) a she says he's off limits and now I probably have no chance of being his friend atmost gf. She prolly told him.
Well I need to know if I should tell Kyle now (even though he has a gf) or wait until I see James this fall.
It's really bugging me now.
Also how can I tell if Kyle likes me or is trying to make me jealous? And how can I get him to notice me more( and how to talk to him)
Sorry for the longness ( I'll rate high for whoever just reads this LOL)
All help will be greatly appreciated!!!
Thanks =] (link)
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If you want to salvage anything at all with your friendship with this Kyle fellow, do not tell him you have feelings for him right now. It's incredibly disrespectful to do that to someone in a relationship and nothing good can ever come from it. Imagine this: You do tell him you have feelings for him and he leaves the girl he's currently with; what is there to make you think he wouldn't just as easily leave you for a another girl batting her eyelashes at him? Do not tell Kyle you have feelings for him unless he and this girl part ways. Kyle is not trying to make you jealous, I'm sorry. Guys typically don't play this card, ever. We're very simple minded creatures, you must understand this. And why wait until Fall to get in contact with this James fellow? In today's day and age, with social stalking...er..."networking" hitting its prime with Facebook, why not try and get in contact with him there? One more piece of advice: Avoid saying you "love" James, especially to his friends or him himself. If you have only spoken to him once, you're barely acquaintances. And who's to say you have to get caught up on just these two guys? I am assuming from your writing that you aren't very old right now, and saying you're taking a placement test at a high school, please oh god please tell me you're taking it for your senior year of high school. If you're in middle school, you're way too young to be worrying about any of this right now. Focus on your academics. Honestly. If you are older than this and I am mistaken, take the advice I gave earlier.
Nick
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Rating: 5
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Thanks :)
I meant that I love his personality overall...
Yeah, I'm a junior next year.
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