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I was just wondering; the media and society have plastered images into the minds of young females that all men want are beautiful girls with slim waists, big boobs, and a butt. I was wondering what guys ACTUALLY want; what they look for in girls they 1.DATE 2.MARRY 3. ARE ATTRACTED TO
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THanks.
Madison
age 18
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Well Madison, I'm glad you asked.
And first of all, you're right. Nowadays, the media depicts a guy's desire as pure looks and not much of anything else.
First of all, we're all different. Some of us, (the superficial ones) will be into you for a short time and then forget about you like an old rag doll.
If you asked me what I look for in a girl, I'd say:
1. Her personality, a beautiful one. Smart and witty, but still humorous.
2. Her smile, her eyes. When that smile shows and those eyes sparkle, It's like we've been shot by Cupid's arrow.
3. The way she interacts with a guy and others. So, in other words, the way she reaches out to people. How open and how willing to live, learn, and love she is.
4. Her looks. Although I hate putting looks into a list, this does matter. But then again, everyone has a different taste. And for every one person in this world, there is one other meant for us, at the very least.
5. Comes anything else, etc.
So what does this all mean?
Basically, the guys who are worth staying with and loving are the ones who will look into your eyes (and not only at your butt or body)and look into you as an individual, and not some entertainment toy.
When I ask most of my friends or people I know, they say they (mostly)look for a girl who is an overall good person, smiles, is entertaining, and knows how to love & kiss.
2 quotes I enjoy mentioning:
"Guys are like parking spots; the good ones are taken, and the open ones are sometimes handicapped."
"The men who are truly honest and worth a shot at, are the ones who will still love you tomorrow no matter what."
More love in the world,
-XZ
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Wow thank you. That really opens my eyes. I appreciate your imput. :) I give u a 5.
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