I am a wife and a mother of three grown sons. I live in New York and am an equestrian. Most of my free time is spent riding and caring for my horses now that my sons are out of the house.
I give down to earth advice, as I tell it like I see it...and I've seen alot.
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Member Since: January 17, 2009
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Last Update: September 11, 2011
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I love my boyfriend and I've known him just about the majority of my whole life and I'm happy we are together BUT it's not enough. We barely spend anytime together except school. And we only have one out of eight classes together. I have tried telling him that it bothers me that we only spend a little bit of time together but it's like it goes in on ear and out the other. To be honest I feel unwanted and kind of unappreciated. I'm a damn good girlfriend. And lately the whole lack of quality time I've been getting is starting to irritate me to the point where I'm ready to break up with him. And yet I don't want to because I care about him but I think I deserve more. I wish I would get more from him but I'm not. Either I get it from or I'll get else where. Idk what to do...help please. I'm kinda scatter brained right now. I don't want to make a mistake and regret later. (link)
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The longer you know someone the less exciting they are. That's a given. Usually, this is an issue with married people. You don't say how old you are, but if you are still in school, even if it's college, you must be young.
I don't want to tell you to break up with your boyfriend because he may be perfect for you. I don't know because I don't know you or your relationship with him. Perhaps you should just tell him that things need to change in the relationship or you want out of it. I'd be blunt. If he doesn't make the effort, then I would break it off. Big world out there with lots of excitement!
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Good advice really you did help some...oh and btw I'm only a sophmore in high school. Young, I know.
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