Member Since: March 3, 2009
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My ex and I broke up thursday 3/5 that night.. He had been talking to someone with a strange number. first told me he didnt know who it was then it was an old buddy well i found out it was a girl. he had keep asking me if i worked sunday what time was i planning on coming home for lunch etc. well i started having a gut feeling looked at his phone cut him cheating on me. and i left him the next day. I really loved this guy. i had to work the night i left. started crying at work.. i guy i talked to way before i meet my ex we started talking again.. I had strong feelings for him. the only thing we werent sure about was age. but we are okay with it. even when i dated my ex i still though about him. and i had to stop talking to him when i dated my ex (he was controling) last few nights i have been going to my friends watching movies holding each other and he gave me a back massage and i kissed him them turned into making out and then more. i dont feel bad about it.. i loved it and has made me like my friend alot lot more. and i havent been thinking about my ex.. is it wrong?? is it to soon for me?? how do you know... also i have a two year old who was attached to my ex. hes a little confussed on why we left. (link)
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First off, if you loved this guy how are you already dating someone else??
Second, if he was asking you when or if you were coming home for lunch during, he was most likly cheating.
Third, if your new guy is controlling that might not be very good for you or your kid.
Forth, YOUR CHILD ALWAYS COMES FIRST. If you are going in and out of relationships you need to consider how your child will handle it and if they are happy not just you.
I know this is all harsh, but you need some tough-love to get your mind straight.
Just please make the right choose for your sake and more importantly your childs sakes.
I pray to God this helps
babysittergurl
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i am not dating him. were just kind of hanging out sometimes. hes not controling my ex was. the new guy i have known for a alot longer than my ex. hes always been there for me. i always consider my son that is why im working my hardest to make sure his real dad can see him as much as possible ( we live 700 and some odd miles away)
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