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Well i have had several girlfreinds and well it usually never works out for me, im never been in a relationship that last longer than 2 or 3 weeks, i dont know what im doing wrong am i picking the wrong girls, or bugging them too much or am i too quiet i really dont know,
I really need help i met this other girl and i really like her and she likes me but im really scared that im going to screw up im not going last with her, i dont want that i want this one to work out fot once any help at all o appreciate it : )
Also im a really nice guy sometimes people take advantage of me but my one big porblem is i worry too much, like if i see sonething and i think its wrong i think the worst even though its not true. sucks but i cant help it.
Thanks once again and any help id apreciate it (link)
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i'm sure that if you're nice and respectful to these girls, you're not doing anything wrong in your relationships. maybe you just weren't finding the right girl.
the way you talk about this new girl, makes me think that you really like her. that's great! maybe you finally found someone where a relationship can last because of your compatibility. my advice would be, ask her out as soon as possible if you like her that much. show interest. let her know that you like her! a girl doesn't want to have to guess if you are interested (this holds true while you are in the relationship as well).
as for during the relationship, be respectful, courteous, sweet, and outgoing. you said you might be a little too quiet... but if you are certain that this girl likes you, you must have done something right when you met her! continue it then. if her interest for you is that certain, it shouldn't be hard to develop a good relationship with her.
my number #1 piece of advice would be to be respectful though. you sound like a nice guy from your question, but i still need to say this. my past relationships have ended because of the way the guys were treating me. If you two fight, remember to stay calm and listen to her. If she's upset, be nice and try not to make her more upset.
also, don't let her take advantage of you. again, it seems that you two clicked, but watch out for any signs of disrespect coming from her or from you. no one deserves to be taken advantage of, and that's the quickest route to a breakup.
as hard as this may be, try not to worry. she's obviously interested in you! go after her and make her yours before it's too late! just keep being yourself and keep doing what you're doing, because she likes you for it : )
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Thank you for the advuce it helped make a decision
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