Member Since: March 3, 2009
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im 18/f the guy is 23
Okay so my good friend set me up with her boyfriends friend, i was informed before we went out to dinner that he already had a girlfriend (to whom he was once engaged with and they still live together) who apparently treats puts him down, cheats on him and the only reason he is with her is for stability. We went out to dinner the four of us, he paid for my meal, he complimented me on how beautiful i am, and how mature i am for my age. So we hit it off, ended the night with a kiss and i let it be known that i didnt approve of the fact he had another girl and if we were to pursue something he would have to leave her. To me he seems like a genuine guy and i tend to be a good judge of character but its just because of how many times ive been messed with in previous relationships that scares me, especially the fact that there is another woman in the picture. But i feel it was good that he could be honest with me straight off the bat. What do you think of this situation? (link)
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What you need to be careful right off the back. Because hes older than you and hes living with his ex. talk to him tell him its you or him. and since hes with both of you he will likly be aggressive towards the both of you. and if you want to get with him and live with or something like that you really need to get rid of that girl or you and him might not be together as long as youd like.
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