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Hey i'm 17, i'm here because i've found myself needing help from an outsider too. so i want to do what i can to help all of you. because sometimes its nice to have an outsiders perspective. i wont judge, and i'll respond to questions asap. i'm very straight forward and honest in my answers. i understand that everyone needs someone to listen to them or help them. i've been there, so i'd love help anyone who's in a tough spot or just needs a friend. i love to talk, so hit me up and i'll do what i can to help you with your problems. be open in your questions, i promise they will be kept confidential =]good luck to everyone out there.

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He lied to me about drinking. He did it in front of me one night and i said dont do it again and dont lie to me about it like he did before. Then he snck behind my back and did it again and when i found out, it wasnt him who told me. So i was mad at him all today, but i dont know what i should do now?? Its hard to trust him when he lies and i am giving him a third chance. He said he will try to stop drinking but its hard for him. What should i do?

It seems like for him this is more that just you asking him not to. its actually difficult for him to stop. so try to help him stop. try to help make it a little easier. because it sounds like he's not just doing this to make you angry, he's doing because he's having a hard time stopping himself. so maybe just ask him, you know, if this is hard for you to stop doing then what can i do to help you or make things easier for you. see what he says. i think if he sees that you care, and your not just going to get angry at him for doing it, he'll feel more comfortable with opening up to you about why he does it. so try this, and let me know how it gois. good luck!

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(Rating: 5) thanks! this really helps me understand how he feels. (:
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