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As an outside viewer, I also try to put myself in your shoes, and that way I can look at the situation from both sides.
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Member Since: February 14, 2009
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Last Update: March 10, 2009
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if a guy begs for a bj after youve already said, sorry but no, considered sexual harassment? is it weird if he occasionally keeps on bringing up the fact that he wants to have anal sex with me after i keep saying sorry i dont think thats gonna happen. but then he just says yeah one time in real quick your not gonna want it out.
and then at the end of our conversation, after ive already said a few times before that i dont think doing that is a good idea, he brought it up again and said ugh im def doin you in your ass.
i may see him soon and im kind of wondering if these are signs that he will try and do it and then not stop..this goes the same with the bj [he has asked for that a lot more]and whenever i say sorry but i dont think thats happening, he continues to beg
p.s. we arent even togethor so of course doing that would make no sense (link)
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He might think that you are just being shy about it because of your polite answers. You saying "I don't *think* that is happening" fuels his hope. I understand that you are probably just trying to be nice, but with some guys you have to tell them straight up and seriously.
In my opinion, this guy sounds like a jerk. I am glad for you that you aren't exactly dating him because he does not seem very respectful of you, and you don't deserve that.
If you are feeling uncomfortable, I recommend staying away from this guy. I wouldn't want you to get put in a bad situation with him.
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thank you but i already am in a bad situation with him. ive been in it for a while now. i actually met him at my friends house because he is friends with my friends brother. he is a freshman i am a sophomore, back in january he asked me if next time i saw him if i would give him a handjob and i said yeah. i dont know why i did that because i think its a bad idea. but ever since then hes been gradually getting worse and now he treats me like an object and only talks to me when he wants to have a good time. i cant say i want him to stop talking to me because the sad truth is i like the compliments and attention. its like a rush. yes its bad to admit that but its the truth. he is almost like a drug to me. its hard to just NOT talk to him, or just ignore him. i like the attention from him. i dont know :/
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