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Hey i'm 17, i'm here because i've found myself needing help from an outsider too. so i want to do what i can to help all of you. because sometimes its nice to have an outsiders perspective. i wont judge, and i'll respond to questions asap. i'm very straight forward and honest in my answers. i understand that everyone needs someone to listen to them or help them. i've been there, so i'd love help anyone who's in a tough spot or just needs a friend. i love to talk, so hit me up and i'll do what i can to help you with your problems. be open in your questions, i promise they will be kept confidential =]good luck to everyone out there.

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(16/f)

About a month ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. We were together for about four months, and it really hurt me when it ended. I was super upset about it, but figured I'd feel better eventually.

Like I said, it's been a month and I'm not feeling any better. I haven't talked to him much (because I want to give him some space), but it's really eating away at me and I feel like I have to do SOMETHING, because I miss my ex boyfriend SO much.

Should I talk to him about it? I was thinking of writing him a note and giving it to him (we have a class together), is that a horrible idea?

Any help is really appreciated =/

although the other advice given was good... i disagree. honestly if you sit him down and talk to him, he'll most likely look at it as if you are clingy. and guys dont like clingy. you're doing the right thing in giving him space, that gives his mind some room to wonder if you miss him, wonder if your still sad.. etc. guys dont want to have the girl completely figured out. thats to easy, and it takes the fun away. they like it when you kind of leave them guessing. so for now, act as tho you're ok with things, that you're happy. spend more time with your friends. the key to getting over a relationship is keeping yourself BUSY! and get rid of anything that reminds you of him! hope this helps!

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(Rating: 4) Hmm..interesting point. Thanks!
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