Member Since: February 25, 2009
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my boyfriend was really good playing college baseball last year. i met him this year and he hasnt been playing well. his team has been losing latly and hes not playing his best. i am being very very helpful. i wish him luck before a game, sending him cute pic messages about baseball, telling him he'll do better. anything i can think of a supportive gf can do. (we are in different states). today he had a bad game, he texted me and said hes turning his phone off adn doesnt want to talk to anyone for a while. he texted me back saying he talked to the coach and feels better. what do i do? (link)
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I am an athlete and it sounds like your BF, and maybe his team, is in a mental slump. There is NOTHING you can do to help his game, that is something he and his team has to work out. But staying supportive will not hurt!
I know when I do poorly I feel horrible about letting my team down...I didn't want to talk to anyone for hours after.
Be glad he can at least let you know when things are rough and he needs to disconnect for a while. At least he is sharing with you on some level.
There is nothing you can do but let him know you are there for him. He doesn't want you to 'fix' it. He just needs to know someone is there believing in him no matter how well or how poorly he does.
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i knew their was nothing i could do but support him. i just need to know hes okay because i care for him. so thank you!
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