What you need to do is take a breather, just stop and look at what you have accomplished. You made it to high school, that is awesome. Sure the future can be freaky because you dont know what to expect, but you made it so far already. Take a look at your past, the change for elementary to middle school im sure at the time that was scary because it was something unfamiliar to you but you did just fine with the transition. Remember you are not alone in this talk to other peers who are feeling the same way you are about the future, start checking out careers/colleges that interest you and see what kind of standards apply to be accepted. By looking and exploring options about your future it may help you settle a bit because you have an idea of what you want to accomplish instead of going out into the world with no clue. As for getting your grades up, i suggest if you can come in before school and get at least 15min of help a day and ask if there is any extra work you could be assigned to get your grades up, remember teachers acknowledge you more for your effort. As well take into consideration that colleges love to see improvement in your grades from freshmen-senior year so if you arent doing so hot right now honestly its not a big deal, as long as you can boost your grades in the math/science courses as you continue your journey through out high school. So relax, take a break and go out with some friends over the weekend, it might just be what you need and during the week just look into colleges/careers , study with some friends, make an effort to e-mail your teachers about not understanding something if you can't come in after school.

BUT biggest thing to remember is that your not alone in this, everyone and i mean everyone is thinking about the future at one point or another not only in high school but once you hit college and your career and so forth, its all how you handle it and by not letting it get to you so much by having some fun with friends to relax and investing in making a plan for the future for security may even help you perform better than you ever were before.


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Brittni

Thank you so much! That helped alot

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