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HEYYY :D i'm in college and i'm a psychology major. i've had many experiences with boyfriends, crushes, friends and family. i know quite alot about sex and sex related issues, so feel free to ask me anything about that! i will be completely honest because i would want the same in return.

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okay so on friday me and my boyfriend had sex kinda it was like only a couple of minutes haha of course we used a condom (YAY safetey) and it was my first time that a guy ever put his penis all the way in. ya it hurt like a bitch but not to much so an hour later when i came home i used the bathroom and i started bleeding like a little bit it wasnt tons of it but you know and iknew it wasnt my period becuase it didnt look like that kind of blood ( i just ended my period the day before though) and im still kind of sore now and its sunday but only when i wipe. just wondering if thats normal.? and i want to do it again on friday like till we finish or he does idk if it will feel good for me or will it hurt still or less? will i bleed again? when will it start to feel good?

Ahh, this is my expertise lol Of course you're a little sore. I hope it's not like, horrible right? If it only is a little sore and it only hurts when you rub there or wipe (like you said) then it's perfectly normal. BUT, if it continues to hurt, than I would skip sex on friday since you haven't healed completely.

When and if you do it again, it will probably hurt a little but definitely less than the first time. You're still tight down there and have only had one experience, and that was only a couple minutes. So don't get scared if it hurts a little again! You won't bleed though, because that happens when you're hymen is broken ("cherry popped") and that's already happened.

Every time you do it, it'll start to hurt less and feel much better! It'll start feeling really good probably around the 3rd or 4th time, when your looser and more comfortable. Make sure you guys get some foreplay in there so you're wet and it'll hurt even less. Don't worry, everything you said is all normal. Good luck! And keep using condoms, you're responsible. :)

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