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i have a friend whos like a hardcore christian but she tells me that she masturbates to porn...i know its pretty normal for teens but she says its really hard to stop...shes still a virgin and plans to stay one and is really a nice girl and im the only one who knows about this...she feels so bad everytime she does it though...what should i do to help her stop or to make her feel better about herself?
shes 16/f (link)
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Masturbation is simply a natural, hormonal part of every person's life. The fact she confided in you shows you are a great friend. Tell her that it is ok as long as she doesn't depend on pornography all the time to arouse her. She needs to focus on other topics and subjects in her life because it can lead into an addiction. She needs to simply switch her mind to another thought as soon as she recognizes that urge to watch porn. It's definitely a sensitive subject, but it is not shameful in the least. Did you know over 40% of people use pornography to get aroused and do so beginning while they're virgins and 16+? She's normal and it is not immoral because she is not jumping every guy she comes into contact with. If she feels it is immoral to gratify her body herself, then suggest the technique I've proposed. If you need any further help, please don't hesitate to contact me. I hope this helps!
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