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i have a friend whos like a hardcore christian but she tells me that she masturbates to porn...i know its pretty normal for teens but she says its really hard to stop...shes still a virgin and plans to stay one and is really a nice girl and im the only one who knows about this...she feels so bad everytime she does it though...what should i do to help her stop or to make her feel better about herself?
shes 16/f (link)
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I have to say, I think there is a problem. Yea, masterbation is normal, but, when used with porn, and the frequency she is doing, isn't. I think she is addicted to porn. Porn can be addicting. I feel there is something deeper going on with her. Is she dating anyone? What are her personal relationships like? I'm not judging her at all. It doesn't make her a bad person. You are saying that she claims it is really hard to stop, then it is by all means, a problem. Look up sex addiction. There's a book by patrick Carnes on this subject. Sex addiction always involves porn and or multiple partners. Maybe if she read it, then she could decide if she has a problem. I think you are a good freind by trying to help her. If you educate yourself on this subject, then she/you can make a more informed decision.
good luck and take care
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