Member Since: February 6, 2009
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I like a guy in my school, I'm not sure if he likes me but it's possible. He doesn't know I like him. There are a lot of signs he does like me but a couple of things make me skeptical about it. But the fact of the matter is whether he likes me or not I get completely discouraged over little things and completely lose confidence in myself, and lose confidence that I'll ever have a chance with him. I know I should go with my intuition because he has shown several signs but one little thing happens and I'm totally upset. How can I feel more confident about myself, around him, and in the possibility of him liking me or ever liking me? (link)
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Having no confidence also goes with thinking your not good enough. You need to be asking yourself, 'Is he good enough for me?' When talking to him, ask him if he likes biking, running, walking, anything, then say, hey, how would you like to go with me? If he says no, say, thats ok, and then say maybe I'll see ya sometimes. You know, one time I had a crush on some guy, he was popular, I didn't think I had a chance, guess what? He thought he wasn't good enough for me, so, he wouldn't ask me out. I about died. We finally dated. He told me this, after I went out with him, so, if I hadn't pursued him, it would never have happened. Go for it. It can't hurt.
good luck.
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