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hey girl i noticed you answered some1's sex question so i thought i'd ask you.. please help me.. but okay.. so this morning my boyfriend and i were having sex. i'm not on birth control but we always use protection and as he's about to go he always pulls out. today after we had sex we checked the condom to make sure there were no holes by filling it up with water. And sure enough, there was a freaking hole! but it was on the side of the condom towards the base of his penis.. so it was not near the tip of the condom where the semen collects .. it was away from the tip of the condom about 3 and a half inches. he said the condom was really tight and that he pulled out before he finished. when we filled the condom up with water we only figured out that there was a hole by squeezing it from all sides and it was a very tiny pinhole. do you think i'm okay ? =( or do you think that precum or cum could have somehow made its way up 3 1/2 inches to that hole and got out while we were having sex ? =( i'm so scared (link)
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Hi,
i know you are probably very scared, but don't jump to conclusions just yet. It is good that the two of you used a condom and he pulled out before he came.
It's nerve racking when you find a hole, however it is not likely that you got pregnant under these circumstances. Sometimes these things happen. It is possible for the sperm to get out no matter how far up it was, but again, I think the chances of you being pregnant are low.
There's also a chance that the two of you could have put the hole there by squeezing it the way you did.
Keep track of your period and if you are late by at least two weeks, then you can decide what to do next. For now, try not to worry about it.
If you are the impatient type, they now how pregnancy tests that you can use even if you are a few days late.
I really hope that everything works out for you and that it turns out the way you want.
Good luck with everything,
Ediemarie
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thank you i hope everything goes well too!
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