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Q: Okay heres the situation

I like this kid-i never realized i liked him until like two days ago. He's not shy,but he's kind of quiet sometimes.He gets good grades and what not. He's in two of my classes,we sit right next to eachother but we only talk sometimes. He's a really good person,one of the VERY few guys that isn't a player or full of himself in my school. The thing is-a LOT of girls like him. he's not full about it-but it bugs me of course. I'm the kind of person when a lot of girls like the guy i like -i instantly try to not like him anymore. but its so hard! He does flirty things with me randomly and we do have funny conversations. But its akward sometimes! And its all because i get choked up with how much i like him.But i can't help it! Another problem is my friend who liked me is in the same class(biology)And we sit together everday,so if i do end up going out with him then I dont know if it'll just be even more akward ahhhhrghhh!

My question is- How can i be more flirty and fun with him rather than quiet and weird?! What are some flirting tips? We're already friends-but i want to get him to like me. I guess i gotta know how i can be more comfortable around guys in general. How do i do this? Ugh,i really wish i didn't like him ;(. Thanks
This is going to sound weird but i have some tips to get him to like you and have you not be so quiet:

1-get more sleep. when your tired then you can sometimes be quiet and seem shy. youre also more bold when you are fully rested

2-try to look your best for whenever you see him. this isnt for him, its for you. when you think you look good, you carry yourself better and feel more confident

3-ask him to hang out outside of school. go to a party or movies with a group of friends and try to make him see you like him but arent like obsessive

4-learn what kind of movies he likes and music too. talk to him about that. if a concert is in the area tell him and go together.

Hope i helped! xoxo =]

thanks :D ! actually,we like the same kind of music so a concert would be awesome :}! number 3's gunna be hard for me, maybe i'll save that for last :p. all in all thanks againnnn :D

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