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Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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'Kay, so I got asked the other day on what kind of guys I like. And I thought of the question again afterwards, and came up with "I like guys who haven't been with other girls".

Is that normal? Like, I would see a nice guy, but if I know that he's had girlfriends before it's a complete turn off.

For example, the guy I'm kind of with right now, who's completely amazing and attractive only had an "internet girlfriend" before, and every time I think about it I get insanely jealous. It makes the time that we spend together unmeaningful and awkward. I really don't want to lose my chances with such, incredible guys like him so I want to try to overcome this "only guys who haven't dated" trait. Any ideas is welcome. (link)
the reason you want guys who havent had girlfriends before is because just the thought of them loving some other girl makes you mad. it makes you think "what was so awesome about HER?!" doesnt it??

you're right. this is jealousy. and its completely normal. i dont like guys who have had really long relationships. one of my exes dated a girl for two years and it always made me mad. that was because my longest relationship was only two months. it made me think "why cant i keep a guy for that long? what does she have that i dont?" but im over it, now. because i found someone really special.

you have got to realize that some completely awesome guys out there have had girlfriends before. its really unlikely that a cute, funny, and nice guy wouldnt have had a girlfriend before, dont you think?? you never know. you're soulmate may have been the biggest player ever. but people CHANGE. and also, if they show any interest in you, feel special. not jealous about some past love that they are probably WAY OVER by now. :)

i hope i helped! and good luck.


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Thank you! You really helped me save myself from a bad relationship!




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