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While I was dating my boyfriend (beginning of the school year), I became really close with one of my guy friends, who became one of my best friends. It got to the point where, as my relationship with my boyfriend came to an end, I really fell for him, HARD. He left his date at homecoming to dance with me the whole night (they went as friends so she was okay with it) and I continued to have the biggest crush on him.
However, for the past couple of months it has gotten really weird. We can't be alone together without it being awkward, or quiet. We went snowboarding with some friends and he BEGGED me to sit with him on the ski lift, but when I did he wouldn't really talk to me. It's gotten to the point where, although my friends think he has interest in me, I think I'm doing something wrong?
How do I fix my relationship with him? I miss being able to talk to him about everything, and when I try to bring up how we used to be, he just nods and agrees but doesn't really seem to notice/care.
He is probably so quiet because he doesnt know if he should react to his feelings. your doing anything wrong, if you were he wouldnt want to sit with you to begin with. i say you talk to him and try to act flirty with him to see if you responds to your actions. Hint to him that you think hes attractive and that you may like him. If you comews out and tells he doesnt feel the same you will be embaressed but atleast you will know! And if he says he feels something for you than there will be no reason to be so quiet with e/o. Btw if you guys get together and things dont work out, try to stay friends. Try to end it on a good and mutual note. If you guys can act like adults everything should work out for the best. Good luck1
(Rating: 5) I was thinking the first part, about how he doesn't know if he should react to his feelings. I've been trying to watch him as well...we're hanging out Saturday, so we'll see how things go.