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HEYYY :D i'm in college and i'm a psychology major. i've had many experiences with boyfriends, crushes, friends and family. i know quite alot about sex and sex related issues, so feel free to ask me anything about that! i will be completely honest because i would want the same in return.

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me and my ex dated a few months ago, for about two months. we were crazy about each other, but we just didnt work out, for the stupidest reasons. afterwards, we tried to be friends, but i was mean and ignored him to try to make him want me back, and eventually we just stopped talking. well, now, after not talking for so long (but me still thinking about him everyday and missing him like crazy) he just got a girlfriend. and i mean she's really not that great, and he doesn't seem very interested in her. what should i do? talk to him? i never see him anywhere. so i could like text him.. but what should i say? and how should i act? or should i just be upfront and tell him i want him back even though that would probably scare him off and i'd get rejected. i mean, he DOES have a girlfriend. what to do!? =[

If you are absolutely set on trying to get back together/work something out with him, then maybe an innocent text/IM would be appropriate... (or even a phone call if you're feeling daring)

You don't want to get rejected or come out with all of your feelings the first time you talk to him. An innocent text/IM/call would involve a "whats up!" and a "what have you been up to?", stuff like that. Don't come out with "i miss you" but you CAN say "i miss hanging out" in a sweet, almost joking way and see how he responds. At this point you're just trying to feel the tone and how he chooses to answer. If he seems interested and responds friendly, then that's great. But if he's giving you short answers and not asking you questions, then maybe it's time to move on. But even if that's the case, you have closure and know where things stand!

Hope everything works out :]

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(Rating: 5) aw thank you. i'll definitely try what you said.
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