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HEYYY :D i'm in college and i'm a psychology major. i've had many experiences with boyfriends, crushes, friends and family. i know quite alot about sex and sex related issues, so feel free to ask me anything about that! i will be completely honest because i would want the same in return.

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Okay. I have been off and on with my current boyfriend for almost 2years! Ive done some real stupid bad things during the time we were broken up. I dont know if i did these things cause i was hurt or no. When we broke up the last time he got a girl and it really hurt me bad even though i made the decision to break up. Anyways i started to talk to alot of guys to get him off my mind but it didnt work. During this time i half way had sex wit two guys. .when i say half way i mean it started but i stopped! With one of the guys the condom broke and i got sooo damn scared of being pregnant, std's, everything! So i took this pill called the plan b, its suppose to kill all sperm cells and it did! Thank God i wasnt pregnant! But the real problem is, about a month ago my friend called me and told me that she heard that he had something and i freaked out. I went to get tested before but i never came back for the results! I am now back with my ex(of almost 2years) and we have had sex and oral sex plenty of time before i got the phone call. Nothing feels different too me but im just scared. I called and ask the guy and of course he denied it but i still made a appointment to get checked out! Im sooo scared of having something. Im not scared for myself cause if i had something i would take responsibility and get cured but i just scare of me giving him something and him leaving me! He dont know about this or the guy. Im planing on telling him but not now! What do i do? How do i tell him if i do have something? Am i a whore? ugggh! Please help!

You guys were broken up, so please don't beat yourself about that! He got a new gf at that time anyway! I really think it's actually mature you went through the plan b, and getting checked out, because ALOT of girls don't even do all that. It's so great to heart you're taking all these precautions :] Honestly, if you love this guy and you don't want to lose him, WAIT until you get all the results from whatever test/s you took BUT please refrain from doing any sexual activity! If it turns out you have something, that's when the absolute truth has to come out no matter what, because it's about his health also. If the tests turn out good and you're okay, then I don't think it's necessary for you to tell him... just make sure you don't have sex until the results come in!

be careful! and hun, to be honest, he could have something from whatever girl he was with during the breakup! so it's not only on you... relax! and good luck :]

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(Rating: 5) Wow i never thought of it like that. .him having something! Thank you soooo much! Im glad there's somebody that on my side lol
Great advice it really help =]
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