Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
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I am sad. I don't know if it's just stupid hormones, and I'm not depressed. It just seems like my Mom yells at me a lot. It makes me really sad. It makes me seem like the only place where I'm happy is alone at home, which is rarely, or at school. It feels like nobody understands me. Sometimes it feels like nobody likes me at school either. I have some friends, but I say one thing by mistake and everyone hates me. I feel like I'm left out, like I'm in a world I hate. I keep telling lies and plastering a fake smile on my face. But I'm sick of it. I need help. Welcome to my Life by Simple Plan is my stinkin THEME SONG. It;s true. Welcome to my life. (link)
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Hello,well your situation is understandable,your home life effects you greatly but you have to realize that everyone in this lives go through ups and downs,some people have a life much tougher than yours but that is not saying that your situation is not just as important. Feeling sad all the time is no good for your health and life as a whole but in your situation it is difficult not to be. I beleive your mom might be stressed ir going through her own issues at this time so in return she is taking all if her anger out on you in return. I think you guys should sit down and talk about how her constant yelling is effecting you a great deal, I doubt if she realizes and if she does not know then this will continue, talking to her may bring you closer as well and right now you need to be closer to your mom to know you have someone who cares for you in this life and understands you. Your mom will be the most likely to understand who you are because after all she lives with you, knows your many characteristivs,what you like and dislike. I know your mom cares for you but it is hard for her to show because she is probably going through alot, I admit that it is no fair for her to take her anger out on you but you are the closest and instead of talking to you about how her day was and the problem she might be having she yells at you instead,if you two build a stronger relationship this anger will turn into loving kindness. As for school,that is a difficult environment and not everyone will understand you because everyone is unique and actually many of the friends in school,the cliques do not fully understand eachother,most of those relatiobships are based on shallow conversations and nothing really specific,those relationships will fade in time. As for your "friends" they arent your friends at all,if they hate you for saying something that probably was not even that serious then they arent your real friends, your real friends know you and would never dislike you over simple words.In the whole school you might find one or two people that you could call a true friend and hang on to and that will really understand you but right now you need to foucs on you,do things you like to do things that make you happy,a sport an activity such as drawing,writting,or anything to express your feelings. The world is a beautiful place it shouldnt be something you hate but when things arent going right then it does seem that way. Try to see the good in life no matter what,being optimistic and trying to think psitive will get you throught this, it may take time but negative thoughts only cloud your mind and can cause depression and make you despise even living when living is such a beautiful thing because you have so many opportunities out there waiting for you. You will make friends in time,REAL friends but it will take time I am a Senior in High School and still dont have one real friend but I have nothing to complain about I am overall a happy person because I am happy with myself and who I am, I dont mind being alone and doing things i love such as what I am doing now giving you this advice,fiding something you love and have a passion for does wonders with your life in alot of ways. Do things you like such as watching a comedy movie.laughing always boosts the spirits.You can tell me some activities you like and I will be happy to help you come up with some ideas to cope with what you are dealing with!I hope this helped,If you have any further questions regarding this topic or any other topic for that matter do not hesitate to send me a private message I will honered to be of aid to you..The best of luck to you!Remember,thinking positive is one of the only keys to happiness!!!Rememeber you are a special person and very beautiful inside and out,You have qualtites that no one else has and you can do ANYTHING you put your mind to,No one can take away your special qualities and others will love you for what you have to offer,you have apurpose in this life just like everyone else,you may not know what it is yet but you will find it out sooner or later!I care about what you have to say and your feelings and I understand what you are going through is difficult but i know you will get through..YOU ARE AMAZING!:) :-) :-0I hope this helped,If you have any further questions regarding this topic or any other topic for that matter do not hesitate to send me a private message I will honered to be of aid to you..The best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:) :) ;) :) ;)
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Thanks! This helps a lot. Can you help me with my newest question? Thanks again!
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