Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
E-mail: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: I was born in Ohio,however I currently reside in California
Occupation: Current Psychology major
Yahoo: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
Member Since: January 25, 2009
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"If you have it [ Love ], you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, It doesn't matter much what else you have...",,,or so the saying goes. You see, I am in this relationship with a different nationality and religion as I am. We are both currently in a country where we are both expatriates. We've been together for more than one (1) year now. We both love each other, we have the normal quarrels that couples have. But deep in our hearts we love and care for each other. We're like bestfriends where we can share each other anything, be there for each other no matter what. We have shared laughter and tears. But the thing is we both know that as soon as our visa expires and we are to go back to our respective countries, that would be the end of it. We both know it, its inevitable. We have not discussed the idea of getting married, it just never came up between us. It was hard for me to accept it before, until now actually, but slowly I have come to accept our situation. Thinking about our "doomed fate" made me feel a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. Some of you might say, "then why the heck are you still in the relationship?!?". The truth? I don't know. I guess its something you can call L-O-V-E? Pretty stupid and lame huh? Or it could be I'm scared to be alone in a foreign country where you cannot trust everyone that you meet. Or perhaps because of the special bond I share with this wonderful guy. Deep inside I know I should let go before I fall too deep-in-love and later I won't be able to recover from the excruciating ache and grief...
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Hello,well wow what a situation,it is hard enough finding someone you love but harder to keep them,remember that everything happens fora reason and everyone is put in your life for a reason,he is obvioulsy very important to you and it is going to be hard to leave him behind very hard but as you two well know it is inevitable. So I say enjoy yourselves while you still have eachother,there is no reason to end it early, enjoy every momnet with eachother and create fond memories to last forever, When the days start widing down do special things that you both enjoy and will never forget, life is too short to be miserable any second,enjoy yourself while you can and take it one day at a time,you have to live in the present to fully live if you waste time worrying about the future or about things that you cant change you wont enjoy it. People are in and out of your life and unfortunatley your journey with this guy will be over in time but you will always have him in your heart, having this relationship will prepare you and make you srtonger for realtionships to come, I know it is hard to think positive when you know what is going to happen in the future but you know it is going to happen and that is that if you continue to think negatively it will definitley bring you down and make the whole situation worse.So just have a blast with him while you can you will not regret it!I hope this helped,if you have any further questions you can send me a privatee message if you need me to be more detailed,the best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Thank you for the advice, you have actually brought tears to my eyes. I know what you have said are right but still I can't help feeling the pain. If you can drop me a message at emma.suba@gmail.com I would highly appreciate it.
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