Member Since: January 25, 2009
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Last Update: February 27, 2009
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so, i had sex for the first time about a week ago. it was really weird and sudden. and it was with someone who ive been friends for almost two years. he means a lot to me, and im sure i mean a lot to him. but its not like we go out, or even really planned on it. i mean, i always wanted to date him and we talked about it, but you'd think we'd be going out by now. we have that thing for eachother, i dont wanna call it friends with benefits, because its friends who hookup, with feelings. awkward, i know. but i kinda feel really stupid now and bad i let him take it. he's been wanting to since we started talking. and i dont know if i just gave in or i wanted to. i mean i wanted to, but now im so stressed. i feel like he's always used me just for ass... what do i do?! (link)
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talk to him about going official. See what his opinion about it is. If he's doesn't show eagerness... there is no point in forcing him. And if he wants sex again, and you feel uncomfortable... then dont do it. You dont have to do anything that you don't want to do.
What happened happened... you can't restore what has being lost. try to make the most out of it. If you feel like he's using you, then be more careful with him. If he is using you, then try to avoid such situations in which he could ask you for sex, like being alone with him at his or your house, or basicly anywhere.
And you mentioned that he wanted to since you guys started talking. I find it a bit disturbing, because if I understand this correctly it means from the start he wanted to have sex with you. which leads to another conclusion. He might have became friends with you "for all the wrong reasons".
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