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so, i had sex for the first time about a week ago. it was really weird and sudden. and it was with someone who ive been friends for almost two years. he means a lot to me, and im sure i mean a lot to him. but its not like we go out, or even really planned on it. i mean, i always wanted to date him and we talked about it, but you'd think we'd be going out by now. we have that thing for eachother, i dont wanna call it friends with benefits, because its friends who hookup, with feelings. awkward, i know. but i kinda feel really stupid now and bad i let him take it. he's been wanting to since we started talking. and i dont know if i just gave in or i wanted to. i mean i wanted to, but now im so stressed. i feel like he's always used me just for ass... what do i do?! (link)
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Hey there...
You've already given it to him once, obviously because you have feelings for this guy. You wouldn't have done so if you didnt...
Now, he's going to want to come back for more.. perhaps this time you shouldn't give in. Talk to him and tell him that you'd really like something to come out of this and you don't want to be used.
Tell him you'd like to get closer so you are able to feel like that towards him. Sex is something that I consider should be done with someone you love and trust... or at least trust!
If you find that he is just using you then you know what his true colours are... best person to talk to hun would be him.
Good luck, Hope I helped :)
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