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My boyfriend and I really want to see eachother more because we go to different schools, but my parents are being really annoying about it. They know I have a boyfriend because they have hinted that they know, and I think that it only made it worse. Normally, I'm not allowed to be at a guy's house or a guy at my house. But now, it seems like they are making a big deal about us even trying to hang out alone at a public place. I think that they think that we will sneak off and go to his house. And obviously I get that they are afraid of pregnancy or me getting hurt, but it just seems like I'm getting a little old for this. I'm 16. Lately I've been pretending to hang out with groups of friends but I actually don't hang out with them, I just sneak off. My parents are getting smart about it though because now they want to see who I am with. And my friends are never available and they are bad at making plans, so it's just getting increasingly frustrating. My parents can not be convinced against their beliefs. So what can I do? (link)
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You're parents trust is something that should be very important to you. Also, if you respect them - they will respect you. Sit down and have 'the talk' with them. Start out by saying something like this...
"Mom, Dad; I love you both very much and you both mean very much to me which is why I want to let you in on whats going on in my life. There is this boy I have been seeing for a while. He is very intelligent and seems to care about me a lot. I want to be able to spend time with him but I want to make sure I have your permission and that you will be able to trust me as I would never do anything to hurt you guys or make you upset in anyway."
Then you can go on from there. Your parents will see how mature you are by talking to them about it and the fact that you want them to trust you should mean a lot to them. As long as you assure them nothing bad will happen - I think they should be alright with it. I hope everything goes well. Good Luck!
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Thank you. I really appreciate the help.
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